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A Mother's Faith
(Matthew 15:21-28)

I.          Introduction.
           
            A.        Once again, we recognize our Mothers and Grandmothers
                        and Great-Grandmothers, and the importance of
                        motherhood, on a special day, first celebrated as a national
                        Holiday in May, 1914.

                        1.         There is one thing that every one of us has in
                                    common – we all had, or have, a Mother.

                        2.         And, many here today are mothers and
                                    grandmothers, and great-grandmothers.  We honor
                                    you for that, and for what that means.  I’m sure,
                                    mothers don’t always feel special – or honored –
                                    especially in their own households.

                                    a.         One mother was having an especially
                                                difficult time getting her young son to eat.
                                                After much frustration, she said:  “Twenty
                                                years from now you’ll be telling some girl
                                                what a great cook your mother was.  Now,
                                                eat your supper!”

                                    b.         Then, there’s “Mrs. Smith.”  Even though
                                                she had three small children of her own, she
                                                found herself constantly taking care of a
                                                neighbor’s child as well.  When the mothers
                                                got together at a neighborhood gathering,
                                                the little boy’s mother went on about how
                                                her son had no brothers and sisters and how
                                                much he enjoyed playing at the Smith’s
                                                house.  Then she added:  “And I’m sure you
                                                don’t mind Tommy’s coming over so
                                                much.”

                                                “Not at all,” Mrs. Smith said, dryly, “I just
                                                hope I’m raising him to suit you.”

                        3.         A teacher gave her second grade class a science
                                    lesson about the magnet.  On their next test, one of
                                    the questions read:  “My name starts with “M”, has
                                    six letters, and I pick up things.  What am I?”  She
                                     was surprised to find that nearly half the class
                                    answered with the word “Mother.”

            B.        Mothers do share many characteristics, but they are
                        different from one another as well.  As you think about
                        your mother, try to remember one characteristic that stands
                        out above others.  It might be her love; it might be her
                        willingness to sacrifice for her family; it might be her
                        indomitable will, her steadiness in a crisis, or her refusal to
                        give up or give in; it might be her tenderness, or her
                        strictness; whatever it is, you can pick out one dominant
                        feature, but still truthfully say she was or is a combination
                        of characteristics.

            C.        We do encounter various mothers in the Bible, and they,
                        too, have a particular quality for which they are especially
                        remembered.

                        1.         There’s the example of Hannah (I Samuel 1); the
                                    mother of Samuel, the prophet and judge of Israel.
                                    Remember, she and her husband Elkanah, had no
                                    children.  Hannah made a vow that if God would
                                    give her a child, a son, she’d dedicate him to the
                                    Lord for all of his life.  When Samuel was born,
                                    and began to grow, Hannah kept her pledge.  She
                                    represents true obedience and sacrifice.

                        2.         Mary was chosen by God to be the mother of the
                                    Messiah (Luke 2).  The fact that she’d already
                                    “. . . found favor with God” tells us what kind of
                                    person she was, and why she was chosen to bear
                                    God’s Son in His incarnate form.  She represents
                                    true godliness, and sacrificial love.  She had to give
                                    up her son for the good of all humanity.

                        3.         There’s also the New Testament example of Eunice
                                    (II Timothy 1), the mother of Timothy.  In
                                    II Timothy 1:5, she’s cited for her “genuine faith.”
                                    It was that faith that was transmitted to Timothy,
                                    as he was taught the word of God from his
                                    childhood.

            D.        Another mother who showed her faith, and received a
                        blessing for it, doesn’t have a name.  She’s only referred to
                        as “. . . a woman of Canaan” (Matthew 15:22).  We often
                        hear her called the “Syro-Pheonician woman”, because
                        Jesus encountered her as He “. . . departed to the region of
                        Tyre and Sidon” (15:21).

                        1.         Find a parallel account of her story in Mark 7 (24
                                    30).

                        2.         It’s in Mark 7 that she is referred to as:

                                    a.         “a Greek” (i.e. a Gentile).  To Jews, were
                                                only two types of people:  Jew and Gentile.
                                                And, at this time, there was that “. . . wall
                                                of separation” between them.
                                                (Ephesians 2:14).

                                    b.         Also called, “a Syro-Phoenician by birth
                                                (i.e. a Syrian of Phoenicia).

                        3.         This is the only time in Jesus’ ministry that he left
                                    the territory of the Jews and went into a “foreign
                                    country.  The Phoenicians were descendants of the
                                    “Canaanites” who had once dominated the whole
                                    of Palestine.  They were not of “. . . the lost sheep
                                    of the house of Israel” (15:24).  That makes this
                                    mother’s faith in Jesus all the more impressive – as
                                    is His response to her faith.

            E.         This mother has a problem.  She shows a spirit of     
                        persistence.  As a result, she receives a promise.

II.        “Great Is Your Faith.”

            A.        As this mother approaches Jesus, she reveals her problem
                        to Him:  “. . . ‘Have mercy on me, O Lord, Son of David!
                        My daughter is severely demon-possessed.’ ”
                        (Matthew 15:22).

                        1.         Here is a mother expressing, first, her love and
                                    compassion for her child.  She felt, deeply, the
                                    misery of that child.

                        2.         Whatever else was happening in her life, whatever
                                    other problems she had to deal with, they all paled
                                    in comparison to this one – her daughter was
                                    possessed, and needed help.  That’s all that
                                    mattered.

                        3.         For this mother, it took both courage, and faith,
                                    to approach Jesus.  She addresses Him as the “Son
                                    of David” – she recognizes Him as a Jew, but also
                                    as a person of power and some authority.  Above
                                    all, she recognizes Him as the answer to her
                                    problem, as the salvation of her daughter.

            B.        The disciples immediately dismiss her, and her problem. 
                        “Send her away. . .” (15:23) was their way of disposing of
                        this “Gentile” woman.  She was a bother, an unwanted
                        interruption, a person not worth speaking to, let alone
                        helping.  Their evident Jewish prejudice clouded their
                        vision, and contributed to their lack of compassion for this
                        mother, and her daughter.

                        1.         Jesus is not so abrupt, but He does explain His
                                    purpose for being in the world.

                        2.         Rather than let the matter end there, this mother
                                    shows her persistence, and the increase of her faith
                                    in Jesus.

            C.        “. . . she came and worshipped Him, saying, ‘Lord, help
                        me!’ ” (Matthew 15:25).  This was her child at stake.  She
                        could not settle for anything less than a complete resolution
                        to her problem.  A request to a great man now becomes a
                        prayer to the living God.

                        1.         Her persistence is seen in that she ignored those
                                    things that could have hurt her feelings, and caused
                                    her to leave in anger.

                                    1.         First, Jesus “. . . answered her not a word
                                                (v. 23).

                                    b.         Second, the disciples said, “. . . send her
                                                away. . .” (v. 24).

                                    c.         Third, Jesus points out that He came for
                                                God’s people, the Jews, of which she was
                                                not a part.  (“I was not sent except to the
                                                lost sheep of the house of Israel”).

                                    d.         Fourth, Jesus points out that His message
                                                is for the Jews, to bring them back to God,
                                                and to salvation through Him (verse 26;
                                                RE-READ).

                        2.         Her persistence is seen in her quick response to
                                    Jesus, in verse 27 (RE-READ).  (“Don’t you have
                                    something left over for meAm I not in the least
                                    worthy of your help?”).

            D.        She came in faith; she persisted in faith; she leaves
                        rewarded.  (RE-READ, verse 28).

                        1.         Jesus saw her love for her daughter as reflective of
                                    His, and His Father’s, love for Their children, Their
                                    creation.

                        2.         It was love, and her faith, that compelled her to
                                    approach this stranger.

                        3.         It was love and her faith that compelled her to
                                    accept Jesus’ silence, and the disciples’ rejection,
                                    and, yet, stay where she was.

                        4.         It was love and her faith that compelled her to
                                    persist in order to receive the promise from this
                                    request for help.

            E.         Nothing can draw us closer to God than these same
                        qualities:  love, and faith.

III.       Conclusion.

            A.        As He challenged this mother, so Jesus challenges us to
                        increase in our faith, and love.

                        1.         Do we believe in Jesus’ deity?

                        2.         Do we believe in His power to answer our prayers?

                        3.         Do we believe in His care for us?

                        4.         How great is our faith?

            B.        (Illust).

                        A woman was calling on a friend whose children were
                        brought in.  The caller said, evidently with no thought of
                        the meaning of her words, “Oh, I’d give my life to have
                        two such children,” to which the mother, with subdued
                        earnestness, replied, “That’s exactly what it costs.”

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