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Martha, Mary And Jesus (Part II)
(John 12:1-8 )

I.          Introduction.

            A.        The end of Jesus’ life on earth, and His ministry, was
                        drawing near now.  It was less than a week before the
                        Jewish Passover, His last Passover on earth, would begin.
                        To even come to the area of Jerusalem was to risk death,
                        as the Jewish leaders had already determined that this man
                        must be killed to put an end to Him and His heretical
                        movement (John 11:53:  “. . . they plotted to put Him to
                        death”).

                        1.         So great were the crowds that came to Jerusalem for
                                    Passover that the city simply did not have places for
                                    all of the pilgrims to stay.  It was common for
                                    people to go outside the city to obtain lodging, and
                                    Bethany, only about two miles away, was one of
                                    those places designated for such a purpose.

                        2.         Jesus comes to Bethany and to the house of
                                    “. . . Simon the leper” (Matthew 26:6; Mark 14:3).
                                    In the few verses John uses to record this scene we
                                    see, once again, the characters of Martha and Mary.

                                    a.         There is Martha, once more serving the
                                                meal.  She loved Jesus, and the most
                                                practical way for her to show that love 
                                                was by the work of her hands.

                                    b.         There is also Mary.  She, too, loved Jesus
                                                and she, too, did “. . . what she could . . .”
                                                (Mark 14:8) for the Master.  With Mary’s
                                                anointing of Jesus, we see three things about
                                                love:

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                                                1.         We see love’s extravaganza.  Mary
                                                            took the most expensive, precious
                                                            thing she possessed and used it all
                                                            on Jesus.  Love doesn’t calculate
                                                            cost.

                                                2.         We see love’s humility.  She was
                                                            honoring her Master, but humbling
                                                            herself to do this.  She bowed before
                                                            Him.

3.         We see love’s unselfconsciousness.  In wiping Jesus’ feet with her hair,
            she was really violating one of the cultured traditions of the Jews.  No
            respectable woman would appear in public with her hair unbound.  On
            the day a girl was married, her hair was bound up, never again to be
            seen in public unbound.  Mary had no thought of the social implications
            of her action, that she could be classified among women who were immoral. 
            All that mattered to her was that she was serving her Lord.  What others
            thought was of no consequence to her.

            B.         On an earlier occasion, Martha and Mary had been
                        observed in a very similar situation.  Martha, always the
                        hospitable hostess, had:  “. . . worried and troubled about
                        many things” (Luke 10:41).  And Mary, sitting, “. . . at
                        Jesus’ feet . . .” had, “. . . chosen that good part, which will
                        not be taken away from her.”  (Luke 10:42).  As we look at
                        Jesus’ mild rebuke of Martha, and at His praise of Mary,
                        we also can learn lessons applicable to ourselves, as the
                        Marthas and Marys of today.

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II.         Lessons From Luke 10.

            A.        First of all, Jesus’ gentle admonition to Martha is a
                        reminder to us to honor others over ourselves.

                        1.         Romans 12:10:  “Be kindly affectionate to one
                                    another with brotherly love, in honor giving
                                    preference to one another.”

                        2.         I Peter 5:5:  “. . . all of you be submissive to one
                                    another, and be clothed with humility, forGod
                                    resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble,’”
                                    (from Proverbs 3:34).

                        3.         Philippians 2:3-4:  “Let nothing be done through
                                    selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind
                                    let each esteem others better than himselfLet each
                                    of you look out not only for his own interests, but
                                    also for the interests of others.”

                        4.         Humility had been a constant theme of Jesus’
                                    teaching, and a difficult lesson for disciples to learn.

                                    a.         At first glance, Martha appeared to be
                                                showing the characteristics of a true servant.
                                                Without any hesitation, she set to work to
                                                provide for those in the house.  But, her
                                                resentment of Mary showed a flaw in her
                                                servant’s heart.

                                    b.         Martha’s growing anger toward Mary led
                                                her to attempt, first, to shame her into
                                                helping , then to force her into helping, with
                                                the aid of Jesus.

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                                    c.         Martha’s frustration may have led her to
                                                make an incorrect judgment of her sister.
                                                Mary wasn’t just being lazy (as Martha
                                                might have assumed).  As Paul says in
                                                Romans 14:4:  “Who are you to judge
                                                another’s servantTo his own master he
                                                stands or falls . . .”  Was Martha Mary’s
                                                master, or was Jesus?

                        5.         Martha’s behavior on this occasion also shows how
                                    subtly, and sinfully, personal pride can corrupt even
                                    the best of intentions and actions.  What she was
                                    doing was by no means a bad thing.  In a very
                                    practical, and functional, sense she was acting as a
                                    servant to her guests, and that certainly is
                                    commendable.  We must say her motives were
                                    noble, and her intentions were the same.

                        6.         But, when Martha made something other than the
                                    Christ the focus of her heart and attention, she
                                    became self-centered.  Now, even her service
                                    became marred by self-absorption, which led her
                                    to be very uncharitable toward her sister.  Her self-
                                    centeredness made her susceptible to several other
                                    types of evil:  anger, resentment, jealousy, distrust,
                                    and a critical spirit.  And all this flared up in a
                                    matter of minutes.

                        7.         Maybe worst of all, Martha’s words reflected on
                                    Jesus Himself:  “. . .  ‘Lord, do You not care that
                                    my sister has left me to serve alone?’ . . .
                                    (Luke 10:40).  Not care?  Don’t you care about me?
                                    About how I feel?  Now, it was all about Martha.

            B.         A second lesson from this incident:  What Martha wanted
                        Mary to do was good, but what Mary was doing was better.
                        Jesus said:  “. . . ‘[She] Mary has chosen that good part,
                        which will not be taken away from her.’”  (Luke 10:42).
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                        1.         Consumed, absorbed by her thoughts of Jesus and
                                    His words, Mary was oblivious to everything else.
                                    It wasn’t laziness that kept her sitting at Jesus’ feet.
                                    It was her focus upon Him.

                        2.         The picture we get of Mary, here and elsewhere in
                                    the gospels, is of a reflective, contemplative person.
                                    Apparently, she was not given to impulsive activity.
                                    Rather, she was the quiet, thoughtful sister.  We
                                    can’t deny that Martha’s feelings were natural and
                                    understandable.  Jesus did not speak to her harshly
                                    about her concern.  But, neither can we deny that
                                    Mary had also a natural, and understandable,
                                    feeling, full worship and devotion to Christ.  To her
                                    that was, at that moment, a higher priority than what
                                    Martha was doing.

                        3.         Mary represents the humble, obedient heart.  As
                                    Jesus told the Samaritan woman in John 4:  “But
                                    the hour is coming, and now is, when the true
                                    worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and
                                    Truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship
                                    Him” (John 4:23).  Mary was just such a “true
                                    worshipper.”

                        4.         As disciples, and worshippers of the Christ, we
                                    cannot become so concerned about doing things
                                    for Him that we neglect hearing Him and
                                    remembering what He has done for us.

                        5.         A condemning self-righteousness can enter into
                                    even the hearts of those who have sincerely
                                    attempted to do good and to serve Christ.

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            C.        A third lesson is that what we believe is, ultimately, more
                        crucial than what we do.  The tug of the human heart is in
                        the opposite direction.  We see what we do for Christ as of
                        a higher priority than what Christ did for us.  We, probably,
                        can more often be identified as a “Martha” than as a
                        “Mary.”

                        1.         It’s easy, at times, to get so caught up in the
                                    privilege of serving Christ, that we forget it is
                                    also a privilege to worship Him.

                        2.         To make our service more effective and worthwhile,
                                    we need to cultivate Mary’s listening spirit along
                                    with Martha’s scrambling actions.

            D.        One last lesson.  Martha and Mary show us God can use all
                        different kinds of people.  We all have a place in His family
                        and in His Son’s kingdom.

III.       Conclusion.

            A.        Two women, both remarkable in their own way.  When we
                        can combine the wise, worshipful heart with the servant
                        heart, we can do great things for the Master.

            B.         Their lives intersected with Jesus’ earthly life, and left both
                        profoundly changed.

 

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